Alright kiddo, so we know that there are tiny little living things called bacteria that are too small to see with our eyes, right? Well, sometimes these bacteria can share things with each other, like tiny pieces of their own genetic material. And they do this by a process called "conjugation."
Imagine this: two bacteria, let's call them A and B, are hanging out next to each other. A has some really cool genetic information that it wants to share with B. So A sends out a little extension from its own body called a "pilus" (sounds like 'pew-lus') that attaches to B, almost like a grappling hook.
Now that A and B are linked by a pilus, A can send its genetic information over to B. This genetic information is in the form of a small circular piece of DNA called a "plasmid". A copies the plasmid and sends the copy over to B through the pilus. B takes the copy of the plasmid and uses it as its own.
So now both A and B have a copy of the plasmid, which is like a little instruction manual with information for the bacteria to use. This means that B now has the same genetic information as A, even though they're not the same kind of bacteria. Pretty cool, huh?
In summary, bacterial conjugation is when two bacteria link together and one bacteria sends a copy of a small piece of genetic material called a plasmid to the other bacteria through a pilus. This allows the two bacteria to share genetic information with each other.