Gendered sexuality is how our society defines and expects certain behaviors and preferences of people based on their gender. Essentially, it means that we expect boys and girls to like and do different things when it comes to love, romance, and sex.
For example, we often expect boys to be more sexually aggressive and interested in casual sex, while girls are expected to be more passive and reserved. We also tend to view girls who are sexually active as being "loose" or "slutty," while boys who are sexually active are often praised and considered "cool."
These expectations and stereotypes can be harmful because they limit people's behaviors and preferences based on their assigned gender rather than their own individual desires and choices. It's important to recognize that everyone is unique, and their gender does not dictate their sexuality or sexual preferences.