Imagine you are drawing a picture of a hill. The hill has a high point and slopes down in different directions. Now, suppose you want to figure out how steep the hill is in different directions so you can understand the terrain better.
A Hessian matrix is like a map of the steepness of the hill in different directions. It tells you how much the slope changes as you move around the hill. The matrix has numbers that describe how steep the hill is in different directions, and these numbers help you figure out things like which way water would flow down the hill.
Now, let's imagine you are a robot trying to climb the hill. You don't want to fall down or waste energy by trying to climb up a slope that is too steep. So, before you start climbing, you use the Hessian matrix to figure out which direction to move in to reach the high point of the hill most efficiently. This is called gradient ascent.
In other words, the Hessian matrix provides information about the curvature of a function, and it is very useful for optimizing algorithms and finding the best path to reach a certain goal. It is like a special tool that helps you understand the terrain of a function, so you can navigate it more effectively.