Okay kiddo, so imagine you have some kind of special club with rules that everyone has to follow. This club is called a Coxeter group, and the rules are all about how the members can move around and switch places.
Now, each member has a special letter that represents them. Let's say there's an A person and a B person. If they stand next to each other, they can switch places by walking around each other, so A ends up where B was and B ends up where A was. But if there's also a C person, they can't just walk around each other to switch places. They have to all move in a certain way to make it happen.
This group also has something called a "longest element." That's just a fancy way of saying the most complicated way to move all the members around so that they end up in a different order. It's like solving a really tricky puzzle.
So when people talk about finding the longest element of a Coxeter group, they're trying to figure out the most complicated way to move all the members around. It's like trying to find the biggest challenge for the club members to solve.