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Play party (BDSM)

A play party is a gathering of people who are interested in BDSM (an activity where people engage in different types of consensual kinky sexual play) to explore, learn and engage in different kinds of kinky activities with each other in a safe environment. It's like a kids' party with lots of toys and games to play, but for adults who enjoy BDSM.

The party may include people of various genders, sexual orientations and preferences, and different levels of experience in BDSM. Everyone involved has agreed to participate and respect each other's boundaries and limits to ensure that everyone is comfortable and safe. Just like at any other party, people can socialize and make new acquaintances, but there's a particular focus on BDSM activities.

Participants may bring toys and equipment to use during the party, such as paddles, whips, cuffs, and ropes. Each person decides what they would like to do and with whom, and they negotiate and agree on the specifics of the activity with their partners. Before engaging in any activity, the participants will also establish safe words or signals to communicate if they want to stop or pause the play.

Overall, a BDSM play party is a consensual and safe space for people to explore and fulfil their kinky desires with like-minded individuals.