Okay kiddo, so let's imagine that you have a toy that lights up when you shake it. Every time you shake it, it glows for a little bit and then goes back to being normal. This is kinda like how atoms work!
When atoms have too many particles in their nucleus (the center of the atom), they can be unstable and give off particles to become more stable. This is called radioactive decay. When a radioactive atom goes through decay, it turns into a different atom that may still be radioactive.
Now, let's talk about secular equilibrium. Imagine you have two toys that light up when you shake them. One of them glows for 1 minute and the other glows for 2 minutes. If you shake them together for 2 minutes, what do you think will happen?
Well, the first toy will only glow for 1 minute and then it will stop. But the second toy will still be glowing for 1 more minute! This is kinda like what happens with radioactive atoms in secular equilibrium.
When a radioactive atom decays, it turns into a different atom that may also be radioactive. But sometimes, that new atom will also decay into a different atom that is not radioactive. When this happens, it's like the second toy that keeps glowing even when the first toy has stopped.
In secular equilibrium, the rate of decay of the first atom is equal to the rate of decay of the second atom. This means that even though both atoms are still radioactive, they're giving off particles at the same rate that they're being produced. So the amount of the first atom and the amount of the second atom stay the same over time.
Overall, secular equilibrium is when two different radioactive atoms are at a balanced state where the rate of decay of one is equal to the rate of decay of the other.