Okay kiddo, so imagine you have a toy car. You turn the car's wheels a few times and it eventually stops because it has no more energy to move. When something, like that toy car, stops moving or doing anything interesting, we say it is "nil".
Now imagine you have a different toy car that also stops moving after a few turns, but this time it stops because the wheels are stuck and can't turn anymore, no matter how much you try. We could say that this car is "nilpotent".
Well, in math, we have the same concept. A "nilpotent element" is basically just like that second toy car. It means that when we use that element in an equation, it eventually reaches a point where it can't do anything more, no matter how much we try. It could be because its power is zero or because it's stuck in some other way, just like the toy car.
So, a nilpotent element is just a boring element in math that can't do anything more in an equation or operation.