Okay kiddo, so sometimes people feel really, really mad. And that's not always a bad thing – sometimes it can be helpful to feel anger because it helps us protect ourselves or stand up for what's right. But sometimes, people feel so angry that they start to act in ways that are not okay. They might yell, hit things, or hurt other people's feelings. When this happens, it's important to learn how to manage your anger.
One way to do this is to learn how to recognize when we're starting to feel really angry. We might notice our heart starting to race, our muscles getting tense, or our face getting hot. When we notice that we're starting to feel this way, we can take a break and try some strategies to calm down. We might try taking deep breaths, counting to ten, or going for a walk.
Another strategy is to learn how to express our anger in healthier ways. Instead of yelling or hitting things, we can try saying how we feel in a calm way. We might say something like, "I feel really frustrated right now" or "I need some space to calm down." This way, we can communicate our feelings without hurting ourselves or others.
Lastly, it's important to practice self-care. This means taking care of ourselves in ways that make us feel happy and relaxed. We might listen to music, take a bath, or spend time with friends. When we feel good about ourselves, we're less likely to get really angry.
So, anger management is all about learning how to recognize and manage our anger in healthier ways. It's okay to feel angry sometimes, but we need to make sure we express those feelings in ways that don't hurt ourselves or others.