Call a spade a spade

Imagine you were playing in the dirt with some shiny metal tools. One of those tools you're using is called a spade. It's like a big spoon with a flat bottom that helps you dig up dirt and move it around.

Now, when we use the phrase "call a spade a spade", it means that we're being very honest and straightforward about something. We're not trying to sugarcoat or hide the truth. Just like we use the word "spade" to describe a specific tool, we use clear and direct language to describe a situation, even if it might be uncomfortable or difficult to talk about.

So, when someone tells you to "call a spade a spade", they're asking you to be truthful and not beat around the bush. It's important to be honest with ourselves and others, even if it's not always easy.