When parents hurt their children physically as a way of controlling their behavior, we call it "domestic corporal punishment." It is usually done by spanking a child's bottom or slapping their hand.
Now, imagine you are a 5-year-old child, and your mommy or daddy spanks you because you did something they didn't like. It might hurt a lot and make you feel scared or angry. You might even cry or feel like you don't want to be around your parent anymore.
These feelings are normal and they can last for a long time, even after the spanking is over. In fact, studies have shown that domestic corporal punishment can have negative effects on children's emotional and mental health.
Children who experience corporal punishment are more likely to have low self-esteem, poor mental health, and behavioral problems when they get older. They may also have trouble forming healthy relationships with others, and they might be more likely to use violence to solve problems later in life.
So when parents use corporal punishment, they might think it will help their child behave better. But instead, it can make things worse.
That's why many experts recommend using other methods of discipline, like talking to your child, taking away privileges, or giving them a timeout. These methods can help children learn from their mistakes without making them feel scared or hurt. And that, my dear, is always a better way to raise a happy and healthy child.