A kernel in statistics is like a magical wand that helps us understand data better. Imagine you have a big box of candies and you want to know what's the most common flavor. To figure it out, you could sort through all the candies and count how many of each flavor there are. But what if you have too many candies and it's too hard or boring to count them all? This is where the kernel comes in.
A kernel is like a special magnifying glass that helps you see the most important parts of your data without having to go through it all. You use the kernel to focus on a particular point in your data and then it tells you how much the data around that point contributes to making it look the way it does.
For example, let's say you had a bunch of numbers and you used a kernel to focus on the number 5. The kernel would tell you that the numbers closest to 5 are the most important in making the whole group look the way it does. The kernel would also tell you how much each of those numbers contributes to the overall look of the group.
So using a kernel is like using a magical tool that helps you understand your data better and faster, without having to count every single piece of information.