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Placement marriage

Placement marriage is when parents or matchmakers find partners for their children and arrange their marriage.

Imagine you have a friend named John, and his mom wants him to get married. Instead of John looking for a partner on his own, his mom starts searching for someone she thinks would be a good match for her son. She talks to other families, friends, and matchmakers to find the right person.

Once John's mom finds a potential match, she sets up a meeting between John and the girl he could marry. They go on a date, talk, and get to know each other. If they like each other, their families arrange a formal engagement, where they agree to get married in the future.

This type of marriage is common in some cultures, where parents play a major role in their children's lives, including choosing their life partner. Placement marriages are based on values like family compatibility, social status, religious beliefs, and financial stability.

However, it is important to remember that people have the right to choose whom they want to marry and live with. Even if their parents or relatives suggest someone, they have the final say in their life.
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