ELI5: Explain Like I'm 5

Relational transgressions

Relational transgressions happen when we do or say something that goes against the rules of the relationship. People usually think of these as bad things like lying, cheating, or not listening to the other person, but even small, everyday behaviors like not returning a call or not saying 'thank you' can be relational transgressions. When someone commits a relational transgression, it can harm the trust and happiness in the relationship.