Okay kiddo, you know what atoms are right? They're like these tiny building blocks that make up everything around us. Now, every atom has some really tiny things inside it called protons and neutrons.
Protons are kind of like positive charges, and they are in the center of the atom. They are surrounded by electrons, which are kind of like negative charges. Electrons move around the nucleus of atom (the center part with the protons and neutrons).
Now, sometimes there are more protons in an atom than there are electrons, so there's this kind of pull between them. Electrons want to be kind of far away from the protons because they are both negative and positive, but they also want to be close because they are attracted to each other.
The actual attraction between the electrons and protons is based on something called the effective nuclear charge. This means how much electric "force" the nucleus has on the electrons that are around it.
So, because the nucleus is positive, electrons feel attracted to it. But if there are other electrons between them and the nucleus, that attraction is weakened. So, the effective nuclear charge is kind of like how much force the nucleus has on the electrons, after you take away any "shielding" that might be happening from other electrons.
Think of it like a magnet. If you're holding a magnet and I'm holding onto another magnet, and we're far apart, it's not that strong. But if we get really close together, the force gets stronger. If we put a bunch of other magnets in between us, the force gets weaker because they block some of the power.
So the effective nuclear charge is kind of like how strong the magnet is, after you take away any other magnets that might be in the way. It's a way of measuring how strongly the nucleus is pulling on the electrons in an atom.