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Ego-dystonic sexual orientation

Ego-dystonic sexual orientation is when a person’s sexual orientation or gender identity isn't in line with how they want to think about themselves. So, even though somebody’s sexual orientation may be one way, they may feel like it is wrong or like it does not fit what they truly want for themselves. It can make a person feel confused and like they do not fit in.