Friends with benefits relationships are like when you have a friend that you also kiss and maybe do some other grown-up things with. It's important to remember that this kind of relationship is only for grown-ups who have talked about it and agreed to it. You have to be honest about what you both want and make sure you both feel good about it. But, you must also be careful not to hurt each other's feelings or be disrespectful. And, if you are not comfortable with any of it, then it's ok not to participate. Remember, being a friend is always more important than being a friend with benefits.