Humans have been around for a very long time, much longer than any of us can imagine. As we have grown and settled into communities, our understanding of sex and relationships has changed. It's important to note that just because we talk about sexuality and sex, it doesn't mean that sex is the most important part of being human or that everyone has to have sex to feel complete.
Throughout history, different cultures have had different ways of understanding sexuality. In ancient times, sex was often seen as a ritual activity to bring fertility and good luck. Sex may have also been practiced as a way to establish power or control, such as in ancient Greece where sex was not only considered a physical act but a philosophical concept.
As societies became more organized and religions emerged, sex was often seen as a sin or something to be ashamed of. The notion of virginity and chastity became extremely important, and sex outside of marriage was considered taboo. Many religious texts have guidelines and rules regarding sex and marriage, and some religions even have different rules for men and women.
During the 1800s and early 1900s, Western societies began to have more open discussions about sex, and the study of human sexuality began to emerge. Sex was no longer seen as just for procreation, but also for pleasure, and people began to experiment with different forms of expression. However, even as recently as the mid-20th century, homosexuality was considered a mental illness or a crime in many countries.
Today, sexuality is still a complex and nuanced topic, but many societies have become more accepting of different sexual orientations and gender identities. We have more access to sex education and resources to help us navigate our own sexuality. It's important for us to respect ourselves and others, as well as communicate our boundaries and desires when it comes to sex and relationships.